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July 27, 2008   No Comments

If you can’t be happy today, when will you be?

One of the most important things that someone ever told me. And its something a remind people off (when I put on my life consultant hat.) Take a look around and realize that you can be happy now. Focus on what is good and make more of it. Make more of it for others and you will see even more of how great it is.

So my challenge to you is to be be happy with everything in your life. Be grateful for all of it. Learn from every bite and then be happy.

April 25, 2008   No Comments

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April 10, 2008   No Comments

Three Easy Steps to Improving Your Memory

Improving your memory can be a big step to making your dreams turn into reality. The biggest key to this huge change is something very simple, “Writing it down!” There are 3 ways that writing down a goal will help you to accomplish it, and the beauty of this system is that you benefit from all 3 of these each and every time that you write it down.

People have been saying for years that writing down a goal is one of the best ways to ensure success in attaining it. However, as with so many success systems, it sounds so simple that many people don’t really believe that it works. Well, it works, and by understanding the process, you will gain confidence in this simple, and very effective method of attaining your goals.

Conscious Statement

Whenever we first decide that we want to accomplish something, we tend to be very excited about it, and very motivated to do “whatever it takes” to get the job done. However, over time, we tend to lose that enthusiasm if we are not frequently reminded of our goal. By making the daily effort to write down our dreams and desires, we remind our conscious selves of the commitment that we made. By writing down a goal every single day, it becomes quite impossible for us to lose sight of it.

Subconscious Reminders

Even more important than a conscious reminder of what we want, writing down a goal very effectively programs our subconscious mind to work “behind the scenes” on the attainment of our desires. The subconscious mind has constant access to all of the knowledge, memories, and experience, we possess, and it is able to change that information in such a way that - quite frankly - our conscious minds could never even hope to compete with. Our subconscious minds control 90%-95% of our lives, so programming that massive super-computer is a guaranteed method of getting what we want out of life. If you start writing down your primary goal at the top of a piece of paper that holds your to-do list each day, in less than 5 days you will begin to experience real results!

Weather it comes in the form of inspiration, or a revelation of some memory you already possess, your subconscious mind will begin to filter solutions into your conscious mind. As long as you keep your goals relevant to your subconscious, it will keep seeking solutions.

Here is the kicker, though: Each idea can come to you completely out of the blue while you are doing something totally unrelated to what you want to accomplish. Your subconscious is simply chewing on your written down desires each day and sending you inspiration as new ideas or methods are discovered.

External Factors

How many people in your life know what your goals are? One, maybe two people? Not even that many? The simple truth of the matter is, people often have trouble defining exactly what it is that they want, and even fewer actually share their deepest desires with others. How are other people supposed to help you if they don’t even know what it is that you want?
The bottom line is that writing down a goal is the simplest and most effective method that you will ever find to accomplish or attain the goals placed on your hearts.

It’s simple, it’s fast, and it’s free. Why wouldn’t you do that??

I am excited to be gathering information from people around the word about Christian Life Coaching. I ask that you take a moment and click the following links to be taken to a page where you can ask me anything about Christian Life Coaching. We will later be conducting a live teleseminar to answer the many questions. Click here to start.

March 24, 2008   No Comments

Are You Surviving or Thriving?

In both surviving and thriving, we will struggle at times, or feel a fear of failure, or rejection, or worry that we are not worthy of what we desire. So the distinction between surviving and thriving can easily get blurred. Surviving will lead us to a dead end, whereas thriving, although it may take us down a long and meandering path, offers up solutions and salvation. Surviving can be identified by our symptoms—anxiety, boredom, addiction, avoidance, depression, lethargy—to name just a few!

Stop Enduring and Start Living Your Extraordinary Life!

When we wake every morning dreading that today will be a repeat of yesterday and the day before and the day before that, we are existing, not living! The bad news is that endurance sneaks up on us. We don’t know we’re in endurance mode until we’re already miserable. The good news is that once we recognize the source or sources of our dissatisfaction, we can say “Enough is enough!” and begin leading a more fulfilling life. Often, these sources overlap, such that we are experiencing two or more of them at the same time. We may be fearful because of a limiting belief. For example, if I believe that I am not good enough in some way, or that I am not worthy of God’s love, I may be quite fearful of putting myself in situations that will likely trigger this belief or call into question my faith.

The problem with latching onto fears, self-judgments, and limiting beliefs is that they diminish us. How can I have new experiences that refute my limiting belief about being unworthy if I avoid situations that have the potential of making me realize I was wrong? Instead, in endurance, I will get to be right…and miserable.

Thriving isn’t necessarily any less challenging than endurance, but it does lead someplace new and different. Instead of being right and miserable, we get to be surprised and excited about life. It is our willingness to commit to our spirit’s longings, no matter what, that result in a thriving and a fulfilled lifestyle. Regardless of the fears, self-judgments, and limiting beliefs that pop up to distract us or try to protect us from humiliation, our focus on a new beginning can bring about a better tomorrow! It will not always be easy, it involves perseverance: committing ourselves no matter what others say the odds against our achieving our goals are. No matter what we have told ourselves about being too old, too young, too uneducated, too busy, or too poor. Thriving is choosing to pay attention to our spirit rather than to all the emotional and psychological pollution that has stopped us from living our extraordinary life.

As soon as we shift from surviving to thriving, we allow surprise, serendipity, and synchronicity to help our spirit along. We are now saying “Yes!” to God, who expands our peripheral vision and gives us a new view of potentials and possibilities. Thriving requires three things: a willingness to listen; a willingness to be wrong; and the courage to explore. The first two requirements must come from within. The third one, courage, we can allow others to support us in. Many of us wait to listen to our spirit, or look for guidance in God’s word until tragedy or illness strikes. But we don’t need to wait to allow ourselves to be inspired by the Lord.

Let today—your child’s smile, your urge to paint, the sun warming your skin, a desire to help someone in need—be enough to know that God is excited about the action you have now decided to take.

I am excited to be gathering information from people around the word about Christian Life Coaching. So please stop on by and ask your question. We will later be conducting a live teleseminar to answer the many questions. Click here to start.

March 18, 2008   No Comments